The disciples, Peter, James, and John saw Jesus in all His glory and splendor, chit chatting with a glorified Moses and Elijah. This is a glimpse of what will occur in Jesus' kingdom. The disciples were dumbstruck at the sight and “fell on their faces” (Matthew 17:6). AND YOU SHOULD TOO!!!!
Tuesday, March 3, 2015
WHAT'S ALL THIS TRANSFIGURING ABOUT?
The disciples, Peter, James, and John saw Jesus in all His glory and splendor, chit chatting with a glorified Moses and Elijah. This is a glimpse of what will occur in Jesus' kingdom. The disciples were dumbstruck at the sight and “fell on their faces” (Matthew 17:6). AND YOU SHOULD TOO!!!!
Monday, March 2, 2015
MISUNDERSTANDING DEATH
Isaiah 57:1-2 gives us one glimpse into how God views the death of his saints:
The righteous man perishes,
and no one lays it to heart;
devout men are taken away,
while no one understands.
For the righteous man is taken away from calamity;
he enters into peace;
they rest in their beds
who walk in their uprightness.
There are two ways this is true for Christians. First, “in this world [we] will have tribulation” (John 16:33). We will only stop having tribulation when God makes all things new, and takes us home.
Second, the greatest calamity that will befall humans is the wrath of God. That is what we need to be “taken away” (saved) from. The Bible tells us plainly that Christians will suffer various worldly calamities (Romans 8:35-36). But what makes us “more than conquerors” in all these things is the Calvary love of Jesus Christ (Romans 8:37). Since we “have now been justified by [Jesus’] blood, much more shall we be saved by him from the wrath of God” (Romans 5:9).
So, when those of us who are counted righteous in Christ die, we are delivered from our greatest calamity and all lesser calamities. We enter into joy, blessings, peace and rest. And this is a mercy that the world doesn’t understand.
And one more thing. The Lord Jesus finally sees his great desire for us fulfilled: “Father, I desire that they also, whom you have given me, may be with me where I am, to see my glory” (John 17:24).
Which is why “precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of his saints” (Psalm 116:15).
Believe.
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Robbs
DEATH & FEELING HELPLESS
Feeling helpless about how to help a friend or family member who's mourning a loss?
Listen.
There's no need to rush in with words of comfort, especially if they don't come naturally.
Better: Simply make a space, with your companionable silence, for the bereaved to express herself if she chooses.
Don't hurry an emotional moment.
A common impulse when someone gets choked up with grief is to change the subject and try to shift to safer emotional ground.
Better: See the moment through. Pause. Offer a hug. Share your own comment about the person who died, if it feels appropriate. Be patient and unselfish about your own comfort.
Talk about the person who died.
Don't avoid mentioning the person who died; he or she is still very much in the minds of grieving family and friends.
Better: Reminisce or mention how the person inspired you or made you happy. When they naturally come to mind, don't be afraid to say things like, "Wouldn't Lucy have loved these flowers?" or, "I can just hear Bill saying, 'It's a great day for fishing!'"
Stick to honesty over platitudes.
There's no "right" thing to say to a survivor, but there are plenty of wrong things, like these 10 things never to say to someone who's grieving.
1. How are you doing?
Better: If you're tongue-tied, acknowledge it. Try, "I don't know what to say. Please know I'm thinking about you." Or, "I can't imagine what each day is like for you now. I'm here for you."
Don't ask how you can help; just do.
Asking even simple questions ("Do you want me to pick up milk for you?" "What do you like to eat?") puts an added burden on the bereaved. Especially soon after a death, someone who's mourning may be physically and emotionally incapable of such decision making.
Better: "See the need, do the deed." Simply step in when you see a need: Furnish a meal (ready to eat or freeze, in disposable containers that don't need to be returned), organize regular meal delivery, pick up milk or eggs or fresh bread when you're at the store and leave them in a cooler on the porch, mow the lawn, take care of the car, stop by to walk and feed the dog. Think of essential tasks that can be handled unobtrusively.
The words we choose matter. They communicate our understanding of the character of God and his place in suffering. We could learn a lot from Job's friend's...they were perfect when they were silent.
Robbie Sprague